A classic Dom/me move, which will never fail to control your sub is to pin them against surfaces - softly pressing them against the wall, or roughly throwing them down on the bed, and using your weight to restrict them. Remind them who’s in control by limiting their movements using cuffs, rope or any other bondage tools. Claim them, using a variety of biting, scratching and bruising. There is no requirement to do any of this, but it is commonly enjoyed for a reason, and helps Dom/mes control their subs, unruly or well behaved.
Taking control during sex using a mixture of edging techniques, bondage and toys, or using verbal and physical denial as they’re about to climax will always keep them in line. Requiring that they bring you to climax, whilst stopping them every so often to do other things for you will ensure that they work harder to please you, and expecting them to keep eye contact while doing so is a classic that never fails to keep them under your spell.
Combining all of these techniques with your favourite fetishes and bondage scenes will be sure to create the perfect session, but all of these tips are so easy to follow and incorporate into day-to-day life too. A wonderful way to use them would be in controlling what your sub can and cannot wear on a daily basis - including the addition of chastity
devices, but plugs and collars, or the removal of underwear when carrying out regular tasks, such as the weekly food shop.