STEP 3: TRY TEMPERATURE PLAY
The sensations of hot and cold can sometimes be refreshing and pleasurable, then painful when they get to extremes, but S&M practitioners love this. The use of glass or metal toys, either frozen or heated, can create some incredible stimulatory experiences as they draw the brain’s focus to all the nerve endings in one particular area. For those who don’t wish to heat or cool their toys, some prefer to use low melting point candles, and feel the rush as hot wax is dripped onto them - the closer the candle is to the skin the hotter it feels as the flame gets scarcely close. From the other end, ice cubes are a simple effective way to create intense cooling sensations, particularly if placed over the nipples, clitoris and other erogenous zones. Further still we have a range of stimulant gels which can be included with any kind of fetish play, or something a little tamer. Designed to cause a cooling, warming or tingling sensation, these will make your brain produce huge amounts of endorphins and really amp up the pleasure.