Many first time chastity players will be exploring this with their partner(s), and will typically have them around a lot of the time. If you want to experience stronger denial, look into a keyholder arrangement, where a Mistress or Master will hold the key, sometimes in a different country! The way you decide to split your keys is entirely down to the parties involved, but always make sure you always have a spare key as previously mentioned, for emergencies and hygiene reasons.
Chastity is a wonderful addition to any other fetish, particularly role play
involving cross dressing, S&M
, and Electro-sex
. Some fetishes even have specific variants for chastity devices, such as the electrastim cock cage
designed to keep you restrained and stimulated all at once.
The vast majority of chastity cages come with a drainage hole to allow for urination, but some can be compatible with sounding equipment, such as the asylum cage